5757
This weeks Torah portion begins with our father Jacob coming near to the Promised Land,
where his brother Esau still lived. Jacob has spent some two decades in the household of
Laban, where he acquired two wives and two concubines, eleven sons and much sheep and
wealth. You would think that with this success came self assuredness but that is
not so. The opening verses of the portion read, "Jacob sent messengers before him to
his brother Esau in the land of Seir, the country of Edom, instructing them, "Thus
you shall say to my lord Esau: Thus says your servant Jacob, I have lived with Laban
as an alien, and stayed until now; and I have oxen, donkeys, flocks, male and female
slaves; and I have sent to tell my lord, in order that I may find favor in your sight."
The messengers returned to Jacob, saying, "We came to your brother Esau, and he is
coming to meet you, and four hundred men are with him." Jacob was greatly afraid and
distressed; and he divided the people that were with him, and the flocks and herds and
camels, into two companies, thinking, "If Esau comes to the one company and destroys
it, then the company that is left will escape." And Jacob said, "O God of my
father Abraham and God of my father Isaac, O Lord who said to me, Return to your
country and to your kindred, and I will do you good, I am not worthy of the least of
all the steadfast love and all the faithfulness that you have shown to your servant, for
with only my staff I crossed this Jordan; and now I have become two companies. Deliver me,
please, from the hand of my brother, from the hand of Esau, for I am afraid of him; he may
come and kill us all, the mothers with the children." [Gen 32;4-13] The sages tell us
that Jacob was, possibly, over-wrought with fear. After all, he did have the promise of
God that he shall be blessed and protected, and yet he behaves in a servile manner,
sending word to his unworthy brother, who sold him the birthright, who did not
receives the first blessing of Yitzkhak he should have been more assertive.
We like to think and tell others that it is Christianity that teaches to turn the
other cheek as, indeed, it does. It is also in Christianity that we read,
"Blessed are the meek, for they shall inherit the earth." (Mat. 5:5) However,
this concept is not original with Christianity. We read in the thirty seventh Psalm,
beginning in verse 11, "But the meek shall inherit the land, and delight themselves
in abundant prosperity. The wicked plot against the righteous, and gnash their teeth at
them; the Lord laughs at the wicked, for he sees that their day is coming. wicked draw the
sword and bend their bows to bring down the poor and needy, to kill those who walk
uprightly; their sword shall enter their own heart, and their bows shall be broken. Better
is a little that the righteous person has than the abundance of many wicked. For the arms
of the wicked shall be broken, but the Lord upholds the righteous. Lord knows the days of
the blameless, and their heritage will abide forever; they are not put to shame in evil
times, in the days of famine they have abundance. But the wicked perish, and the enemies
of the Lord are like the glory of the pastures; they vanishlike smoke they vanish
away. The wicked borrow, and do not pay back, but the righteous are generous and keep
giving; for those blessed by the Lord shall inherit the land, but those cursed by him
shall be cut off." And the prophet Isaiah had the same idea in mind when he spoke to
the people of Israel saying, [29:19] "The meek shall obtain fresh joy in the Lord,
and the neediest people shall exult in the Holy One of Israel. For the tyrant shall be no
more, and the scoffer shall cease to be; all those alert to do evil shall be cut off
those who cause a person to lose a lawsuit, who set a trap for the arbiter in the gate,
and without grounds deny justice to the one in the right. Therefore thus says the Lord,
who redeemed Abraham, concerning the house of Jacob: No longer shall Jacob be ashamed, no
longer shall his face grow pale." So, maybe a little humility and meekness is
desirable. However, the sages tell us that Jacob actually over-did his pleading before
Esau. We read further in the text about how Jacob sent helter skelter, anything he could
grab, (the text says min haba byado which means "whatever came into
his hand") and sent waves of gift bearers with the following instructions, "When
Esau my brother meets you, and asks you, To whom do you belong? Where are you going?
And whose are these ahead of you? then you shall say, They belong to your
servant Jacob; they are a present sent to my lord Esau; and moreover he is behind us."
He likewise instructed the second and the third and all who followed the droves, "You
shall say the same thing to Esau when you meet him, and you shall say, Moreover your
servant Jacob is behind us." For he thought, "I may appease him with the
present that goes ahead of me, and afterwards I shall see his face; perhaps he will accept
me." [Gen 34:18-22] Having sent these massagers, Jacob spent a restless night at the
river crossing. In the dark of night he sent the camp across the river while he remained
behind and fought with an angel maybe his conscience, or maybe his weak
ego that wished to remain in relative safety and complete obscurity in Aram. The ambition
of the grandson of Abraham won the battle of the river-crossing, and in the morning there
emerged a new personage on the scene: Yisrael, the man who fought with the angel and
persevered. Not won, mind you, for there were to be other encounters yet before him. But
he lived through the night, lived down his fears and was ready to face his brother at
last.
Esau arrives to encounter his brother with four hundred men. Jacob, wanting to impress his
brother, splits his camp in two first the concubines and their
children, with some of the servants and sheep; next his two wives, their children, and
himself, Yisrael, limping from the wound sustained in battle at the river crossing. Not
much of a threat to prosperous Esau, who was overcome with compassion and the meek
was allowed to survive, to live on. Why? It is hard to say. Possibly Esau despised his
birthright yet again -- when he saw that the recompense of the blessing of Yitzkhak was
neither abundant nor prestigious. He, Esau, was master of the land; he had remained with
the tents of his father while his brother spent the best years of his life working in vain
for uncle Laban being cheated again and again before he cut loose. Esau
never heard Isaiah, not read the Psalms, and he did not know the message of Zachariah
[4:6] "Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, says the LORD of hosts."
So, bemused by his brothers servile behavior, confident in his own success, Esau
waves aside his gifts with the words, "I have enough, my brother, let
that which you have be yours." But Yisrael insists, and Esau takes the gifts. The
brothers then part company, and Jacob continues his travels by himself, free of fear and
threat for the moment.
Did Jacob do the right thing? Should one bend his back and act meekly to survive. How far
can one bend before one loses ones shape, before one breaks in two? These are very
significant questions that came up and were discussed again and again. At times, our sages
advocated resistance. More often than not, they advocated compliance, speaking of the
wisdom of our third patriarch. Jacob planted the seeds of future nationhood giving
birth to twelve sons. In time to come a great multitude would come out of this seed, to
overflow into camps and armies, to conquer the land and make of it Eretz Yisrael
the land of Yisrael, the inheritance of Jacob the meek, who shall persevere and prosper.
It is obvious that Jacob knew the wisdom of Ecclesiastes, [3:1] "For everything there
is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven: a time to be born, and a time to
die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up what is planted; a time to kill, and a time
to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up;" The mark of a true leader is
knowing which time is at hand. Jacob knew, and God blessed him in all he did. May we learn
to discern the times and the seasons, and may God continue to bless us, as well. Amen
5758
This week we read in the Torah the portion of Vayishlakh -- which means and he
sent. The reading begins with our father Jacob coming near to the Promised Land,
where his brother Esau still lives. Jacob has spent some two decades in Aram of the two
rivers, where he acquired two wives and two concubines, eleven sons, an unknown number of
daughters and servants, and much sheep and wealth. One might assume that with this coming
of age and success both in his personal affairs and business dealings, Yaakov became
assertive and self-confident but that is not the case. The opening verses of the
portion read, "Jacob sent messengers before him to his brother Esau in the land of
Seir, the country of Edom, instructing them, "Thus you shall say to my lord Essau:
Thus says your servant Jacob, I have lived with Laban as an alien, and stayed until
now; and I have oxen, donkeys, flocks, male and female slaves; and I have sent to tell my
lord, in order that I may find favor in your sight." [Gen 32:4-6]
Our father Yaakov is so full of fear that he splits his camp in two, in the hope
that if Esau will attack and annihilate Jacobs camp, the other half will
survive. He prays, "O God of my father Abraham and God of my father Isaac, O Lord who
said to me, Return to your country and to your kindred, and I will do you good,
I am not worthy of the least of all the steadfast love and all the faithfulness that you
have shown to your servant, for with only my staff I crossed this Jordan; and now I have
become two companies. Deliver me, please, from the hand of my brother, from the hand of
Esau, for I am afraid of him; he may come and kill us all, the mothers with the
children." [Gen. 32:10-14]
The sages tell us that Jacob was, possibly, overwrought with fear. After all, he did have
Yitzkhaks blessing and promise that he shall be "Lord over your brothers, and
may your mother's sons bow down to you. Cursed be everyone who curses you, and blessed be
everyone who blesses you!" [Gen. 27:29] Furthermore, God promised him at Beit-El that
he shall be blessed and protected, and yet he behaves in a servile manner, sending word to
his unworthy brother, who sold him the birthright, who did not receives the
first blessing of Yitzkhak he should have been more assertive.
After his experience of struggling with the angel, and his name change to Yisrael; after
his success in confronting Esau, coming to terms with him, and receiving from
him a charter to live on in the land, Jacob makes another poor choice,
delaying his arrival at Beit-El to fulfill his commitment to God, which he swore while
escaping the wrath of Esau: "If God will be with me, and will keep me in this way
that I go, and will give me bread to eat and clothing to wear, so that I come again to my
father's house in peace, then the Lord shall be my God, and this stone, which I have set
up for a pillar, shall be God's house; and of all that you give me I will surely give one
tenth to you." [Gen 28:20-22] Instead, he arrives in the center of the Land of
Canaan: "Jacob came safely to the city of Shechem, which is in the land of Canaan, on
his way from Paddan-aram; and he camped before the city. And from the sons of Hamor,
Shechem's father, he bought for one hundred pieces of money the plot of land on which he
had pitched his tent. There he erected an altar and called it El-Elohe-Israel." [Gen
33:18-20]
His grandfather, Abraham, had arrived there, too, on the same route, from the same land,
and we read, "Abram passed through the land to the place at Shechem, to the oak of
Moreh. At that time the Canaanites were in the land. Then the Lord appeared to Abram, and
said, "To your offspring I will give this land." So he built there an altar to
the Lord, who had appeared to him. From there he moved on to the hill country on the east
of Bethel, and pitched his tent, with Bethel on the west and Ai on the east; and there he
built an altar to the LORD and invoked the name of the Lord." [Gen 12:6-8] The
commentators tell us that he removed himself from Shechem to avoid contact with the wicked
Canaanites. Jacob stays -- and becomes a victim of the people of Shechem: they abduct his
daughter, rape her and insist that she become wedded to her tormentor!
The sages asked, why did this terrible thing befall Dina, the daughter of Leah and
Jacob. They answered, because Jacob ingratiated himself with the wicked Canaanites of
Shechem, and they took his grace for fear. Thus they had no respect for him, and they felt
free to abduct his daughter and force her into illicit and unnatural sex -- and they had
the audacity to ask Jacob to make this impure relationship permanent by allowing the
rapist to marry his victim! What is even more disturbing than this proposition is the fact
that Jacob may have considered allowing such a thing to happen! However, Dinas
brothers took matters into their hands. We read, "The sons of Jacob answered Shechem
and his father Hamor deceitfully, because he had defiled their sister Dinah." [Gen
34:13] They said that they could not consider their womenfolk marrying men who were not
circumcised. All the men of Shechem then proceeded to have this operation --
to be ready to marry these newly available women.
The text continues, "On the third day, when they were still in pain, two of the sons
of Jacob, Simeon and Levi, Dinah's brothers, took their swords and came against the city
unawares, and killed all the males. They killed Hamor and his son Shechem with the sword,
and took Dinah out of Shechem's house, and went away. And the other sons of Jacob came
upon the slain, and plundered the city, because their sister had been defiled. They took
their flocks and their herds, their donkeys, and whatever was in the city and in the
field. All their wealth, all their little ones and their wives, all that was in the
houses, they captured and made their prey. Then Jacob said to Simeon and Levi, "You
have brought trouble on me by making me odious to the inhabitants of the land, the
Canaanites and the Perizzites; my numbers are few, and if they gather themselves against
me and attack me, I shall be destroyed, both I and my household." [Gen 34:23-29]
However, the text tells us that this was a turning point for Jacob -- he had to assert and
define himself, and he issued orders, "Put away the foreign gods that are among you,
and purify yourselves, and change your clothes; then come, let us go up to Bethel, that I
may make an altar there to the God who answered me in the day of my distress and has been
with me wherever I have gone." [Gen.35:2,3] Jacob comes into his own, the honor of
Israel and its strength is established, and "As they journeyed, a terror from God
fell upon the cities all around them, so that no one pursued them." [Gen.35:5]
Friends, things have not changed much since the days of our fathers. Shechem is still not
a good place for Jews to live in, and the inhabitants of the land still want
to either assimilate or annihilate us. If we try to compromise, and if we act
indecisively, we shall surely be defeated. We must remain vigil and strong, and we must
not let down our guard for event one moment, until the Canaanites become civilized and
accepting of us and of our sovereignty in the land that God promised us and that we then
earned by the sweat of our labor and the blood of our finest men and women -- and even
children. As Tziporah, Moshe Rabeinus wife declared, "Truly you are a
bridegroom of blood to me!" We are wedded to the land, not by circumcision, but by
the commitment of the heart, the soul, and our lifes blood. We have married the
land, we are its "bridegroom of blood." Jacob and his seed shall persevere
and prosper. Amen
5759
This week we read in the Torah in the book of Genesis, from 32:4 to 36:43. The portion is
called Vayishlakh -- which means and he sent. The reading begins with
our father Jacob coming near to the Promised Land, where his brother Esau still lives.
Jacob has spent some twenty two years in Aram of the two rivers, where he
"acquired" two wives and two concubines, eleven sons, an unknown number of
daughters and servants, and much sheep and wealth. Our portion deals with the dramatic and
fateful reunion of the two brothers, Jacob and Esau.
You would think that with this great success of Jacobs, both in his personal affairs
and business dealings, he would have become assertive and self-confident but that
is not the case. The opening verses of the portion read, "Jacob sent messengers
before him to his brother Esau in the land of Seir, the country of Edom, instructing them,
"Thus you shall say to my lord Esau: Thus says your servant Jacob, I have lived
with Laban as an alien, and stayed until now; and I have oxen, donkeys, flocks, male and
female slaves; and I have sent to tell my lord, in order that I may find favor in your
sight." [Gen 32:4-6] Our father Jacob addresses his brother as "my
lord," and speaks of himself as "your servant."
The messengers return and inform Jacob, "We went to your brother Esau, and now he is
coming to meet you, and four hundred men are with him." [Gen 32:7] We dont know
if Esau received his brothers messengers and spoke to them, or if they just saw him
on the move -- at any rate, Jacob reaches the conclusion that Esau is getting
ready for battle.
Our father Yaakov prepares for conflict, splitting his camp in two, in the hope that
if Esau will attack and annihilate Jacobs camp, the other half will
survive. He prays, "O God of my father Abraham and God of my father Isaac, O Lord who
said to me, Return to your country and to your kindred, and I will do you good,
I am not worthy of the least of all the steadfast love and all the faithfulness that you
have shown to your servant, for with only my staff I crossed this Jordan; and now I have
become two companies. Deliver me, please, from the hand of my brother, from the hand of
Esau, for I am afraid of him; he may come and kill us all, the mothers with the
children." [Gen. 32:10-14]
Still, Jacob tries to avoid conflict, and he sends another delegation to appease Esau,
"he selected a gift for his brother Esau: two hundred female goats and twenty male
goats, two hundred ewes and twenty rams, thirty female camels with their young, forty cows
and ten bulls, and twenty female donkeys and ten male donkeys. He put them in the care of
his servants, each herd by itself, and said to his servants, "Go ahead of me, and
keep some space between the herds." He instructed the one in the lead: "When my
brother Esau meets you and asks, 'To whom do you belong, and where are you going, and who
owns all these animals in front of you?' Then you are to say, 'They belong to your servant
Jacob. They are a gift sent to my lord Esau, and he is coming behind us.'" He also
instructed the second, the third and all the others who followed the herds: "You are
to say the same thing to Esau when you meet him. And be sure to say, 'Your servant Jacob
is coming behind us.'" [Gen. 32:15-21]
Finally the long awaited (and, for Jacob, agonized over) meeting takes place. The text
tells us of a typical meeting between brothers who have not seen one another in a very
long time. Esau runs, alone, towards his sibling, his arms open to embrace him warmly.
Jacob anxiety evaporates as the brothers kiss and hug warmly. Esau does not mention old
rivalries, long buried transgressions, or once implied threats. He does not speak of
forgiveness -- because he does not mentions any reasons for such a pardon. He calls Jacob
akhi -- my brother, while Jacob maintains the "proper" attitude to
his older brother by calling him adoni -- master!
There is a midrash, an interpretation of the text, which says that "anyone who wishes
to show proper etiquette towards a king or a ruler and does not how -- should study
closely this portions text, and learn from it a lesson in methods of peace making
and conflict avoidance."
The sages tell us that Jacob was, possibly, overwrought with fear. After all, he did have
Yitzkhaks blessing and promise that he shall be "Lord over your brothers, and
may your mother's sons bow down to you. Cursed be everyone who curses you, and blessed be
everyone who blesses you!" [Gen. 27:29] Furthermore, God promised him at Beit-El that
he shall be blessed and protected, and yet he behaves in a servile manner, sending word to
his unworthy brother, who sold him the birthright, who did not receives the
first blessing of Yitzkhak he should have been more assertive. Yet, the sages also
praise the third patriarch for making a good choice, acting as a righteous ruler,
diplomatically sending "malakhim," which are messengers, or ambassadors,
not lowly servants, to personally greet and suggest to Esau that his brother is coming in
peace and with a desire to share his success with Esau. Jacob behaves in this
manner to negate the source of Esaus anger. Father Yitzkhak blessed Jacob with the
words, "your brothers shall bow before you." Now Esau comes towards the
blessed one -- and he, Jacob, bows down and blesses him! This makes Esau conclude
that he lost nothing by not getting his fathers blessing, since it did not come
true.
After Jacobs experience of struggling with the angel, and his name change to
Yisrael, our third patriarch shows sensitivity and maturity in dealing with his pugnacious
brother, allowing him to feel superior, and avoiding a confrontation. The two brothers are
comfortable enough with one another that Esau suggests to his sibling that they travel on
together -- and here again Jacob shows maturity and tact in avoiding being swallowed into
the camp of Esau. "My lord knows that the children are tender and that I must care
for the ewes and cows that are nursing their young. If they are driven hard just one day,
all the animals will die. So let my lord go on ahead of his servant, while I move along
slowly at the pace of the droves before me and that of the children, until I come to my
lord in Seir." [Gen. 33:13-14] Jacob, renamed Yisrael, is ready to be master of his
faith, with his brother no longer a threat, with their relationship established on his
terms by his doings. The grandson of Avraham, the son of Yitzkhak is finally his own man,
in his own land. The future will unfold!
Amen
5760
This is the Shabbat following the American holiday of Thanksgiving. This Shabbat we read
in the Torah the portion of Vayishlakh, Genesis 32:4 to 36. The reading begins with
the following words, "Jacob sent messengers before him to his brother Esau in the
land of Seir, the country of Edom, instructing them, "Thus you shall say to my lord
Esau: Thus says your servant Jacob, I have lived with Laban as an alien, and stayed
until now; and I have oxen, donkeys, flocks, male and female slaves; and I have sent to
tell my lord, in order that I may find favor in your sight."" [Gen 37:3-5]
In the past, I looked at this story and I saw Jacob as a man weak and full of self doubt.
Yet when I was preparing to speak about the Torah reading this week I saw a different
approach to this parsha. I recalled that Jacobs mother, Rivkah, had a very difficult
pregnancy, with the twins fighting in her womb. She complained to God and He told her,
"And the Lord said to her, "Two nations are in your womb, and two peoples born
of you shall be divided; the one shall be stronger than the other, the elder shall serve
the younger."" [Gen. 25:23] We all know that Esau was the older, and so we
expect that Jacob shall be served by him. However, I recalled that Jacob bought the
birthright from Esau for the lentils stew that he had made and that Esau had to have. Now,
if Jacobs deal with Esau stood, then he was the older, and he had to behave in a
servile manner to his brother, and serve the younger as the text said.
What do we learn from this story?
I think that the primary lesson that must be learned has to do with the destructive nature
of sibling rivalry. This can be extended to include all rivalry that is taken beyond the
bounds of good sportsmanship. Jacob spent the better part of his adult life away from his
parents home, deprived of their company and all that he could have learned from them
because of this kind of rivalry. He then passed on to his children a set of
circumstances that made it impossible for him to live his life in the company of all his
children Joseph was sold into slavery, Jacob thought his favorite son to be dead,
and the other brothers, having done what they did to Joseph, selling him into slavery
even though it turned out that they fulfilled the destiny Joseph was meant to have,
still they most certainly could not have been good company to their father, because of
their heavy guilt at what they had done.
There is a corresponding situation existing today, in the manner in which some of the sons
of Jacob treat each other. I am thinking of members of the family of Israel, who are at
each others throat with accusations of every conceivable kind of wrong-doing,
unwilling to reconcile or to bend, unable to compromise or rectify, on issues of paramount
significance and preeminent relevance to the continued existence of our nation, Israel,
and of our people all over the world as one people, indivisible and united through Torah,
Mitzvot, and Ahavat Yisrael the love of Israel!
Torah, Mitzvot, and Ahavat Yisrael are the essence of what has kept us alive through two
millennia of persecution and exile. When we were disunited and hating one another, we
brought about the splitting of the kingdom of David and Solomon to the two kingdoms,
Yehudah and Yisrael causing the downfall of the one and of the other. Sinat
akhim brothers hating one another, caused the fall of Jerusalem and the destruction
of the second Temple. When we were united, when we cared about each Jews destiny, we
survived and even flourished in the face of the wrath and venom of Greek garrisons, Roman
rulers, crazed crusaders and greedy goose stepping Germans. When we argue and fight among
ourselves, we attack and devastate one another in a frenzy of brotherly betrayal and
character assassinations of those that only yesterday we supported and saved from the all
consuming foreign fire of annihilation.
I am speaking of the issues of the day! I am speaking of religious communities that do not
act with faith or with charity towards one another. I am speaking of bnai Torah,
Jews learned in the Torah, steeped in our tradition, who do not accord respect to fellow
scholars. I am speaking of an entire segment of Judaism that has seen fit to sit as judge
and jury to arbitrate the great question of who is and who is not a Jew. I am also
speaking of those who disdain our connection to Torah, and who postulate that one can be a
Jew without Torah, without Mitzvot, without a reverence for God!
But this is the Shabbat of the Thanksgiving holiday and we need to look at the good
that has been given to us. Jacob spoke softly and humbly to Esau, and he turned the
brothers hatred into love. The two reconciled, and each went his way to live and
prosper separately. Jacob was still to learn and do most of what made him the father of a
nation. We, too, are even today only at the beginning of our great adventure: To prepare
the people Israel for the next four millennia. With Gods help and inspiration, we
as father Jacob before us shall not fail!
5761
This weeks Torah portion is Vayishlakh which means and he sent.
It is found in the book of Genesis, from 32:4 to 36:43. The portion begins with our father
Jacob returning to the Promised Land, having spent some twenty two years in Aram of the
Two Rivers, where he acquired two wives and two concubines, eleven sons, an
unknown number of daughters and servants, and much sheep and wealth. Our portion deals
with the dramatic and fateful reunion of the two brothers, Jacob and Esau.
The opening verses of the portion read, Jacob sent messengers before him to his
brother Esau in the land of Seir, the country of Edom, instructing them, Thus you
shall say to my lord Esau: Thus says your servant Jacob, I have lived with Laban as
an alien, and stayed until now; and I have oxen, donkeys, flocks, male and female slaves;
and I have sent to tell my lord, in order that I may find favor in your sight.
[Gen 32:4-6] Our father Jacob addresses his brother as my lord, and speaks of
himself as your servant. You would think that with this great success of
Jacobs, both in his personal affairs and business dealings, he would have become
assertive and self-confident.
Like men who win an election... You know what I mean? Everyone sends messengers to smooth
the transition; everyone wishes to avoid a direct confrontation. It is true in this great
country of ours, and it is even more true in our beloved State of Israel. In the whole
world there are very few nations where the opposition is viewed with respect and
consideration. It is only a pragmatic approach that others have: are you for me or are you
for and with my enemies?
The Torah, on the other hand, teaches us to bide our time and be civilized, and wait for
events to unfold. Jacob was promised the primacy, in his mothers dream before he was
born, in his fathers blessing before he was hounded out of him home and hearth. Yet,
at no time did he entertain the thought of defending himself against his brother, of doing
harm to him before harm would be done to Jacob. He returns from exile, and he sends
messengers to your servant from my lord. Similarly, at the
conclusion of a bitterly fought and contested election in our country, and without
conclusive verification of the true measure of winning or defeat, we have come together,
the two candidates for the greatest office in the land, maybe in the world, and they
called a halt to adversity. They were magnanimous in defeat and charitable in victory.
They showed the spirit of our father Jacob. The began the process of healing the nation
and bringing it together.
In Israel the situation is quite different. There we see how precarious life can be when
Esau holds sway. The government of Israel is at an impasse. There is an insistence on
carrying on the negotiations (which are called peace though events contradict
the term), even while admitting that they do not have a mandate to rule, as evident from
the resignation of the prime minister. Still, the emissaries of our leader do not follow
the example of father Jacob. There is no humility, and there is no attempt at making peace
within the camp. The nation of Israel is torn asunder by the smashed dream of peace with
our neighbors, a dream devastated by the events of the past two months. How can one
believe in the sincerity of adversary in his claim to want peace when one sees the blood
thirsty multitude in the lynch mob in Ramallah? How can one accept the peaceful intention
of a leader who praises the killers and the murderers and the children who are used as
shields and cannon fodder in a callous maneuver to dislodge us from our hard fought and
hard labored land which we have turned from desert to blooming garden.
Let us send emissaries far and wide, like father Jacob, like all decent and God loving
people do. Let the emissaries speak of peace peace with honor, peace with honesty,
peace between equals. Let us speak peace in the marketplace, not behind closed doors. Let
peace flow from street to avenue to city square. Let none threaten it or try to put it
down. Let none speak of revenge or redress or reported wrongs of yesteryear. Let us take
the time to heal and hallow life above pride and prejudice. Let the messengers return, as
the dove did to Noahs ark, carrying the olive branch that symbolizes the end of evil
and of strife. Let there be true and complete peace. In America, in Israel, and throughout
Gods great creation.
Amen
5763
This Shabbat we read in the Torah in the book
of Genesis, from chapter 32, verse 4 to chapter 36, verse 43. The
portion is called Va'yishlakh which means and he sent.'
The reading begins with our father Jacob coming near to the Promised
Land, where his swarthy and hot-tempered brother Esau lived.
Jacob had spent some twenty two years in Aram of the two rivers, where
he went, the Torah tells us, to "find a wife" but
we know it was to avoid being killed by his older brother. During
his sojourn with his mother's family he "acquired" two wives
and two concubines, eleven sons, an unknown number of daughters and
servants, and much sheep and wealth. Esau, the brother deprived of
Yitzkhak's blessing, was master of the land; he had remained with
the tents of his father while his brother spent the best years of
his youth working in vain for uncle Laban' being cheated
again and again before he cut loose. Now Jacob returns, sending messengers
before him bearing gifts and homage to the brother he once (and still)
feared.
When the long awaited meeting finally takes place, everything turns
out well. Esau runs, alone, towards his sibling, his arms open to
embrace him warmly. Jacob anxiety evaporates as the brothers kiss
and hug warmly. Esau does not mention old rivalries, long buried transgressions,
nor once implied threats. True, he does not try to make amends nor
mentions forgiveness maybe because he does not harbor any reasons
for such a pardon. He calls Jacob akhi -- my brother,' while
Jacob maintains the "proper" attitude to his older'
brother by calling him adoni master!'
And then the brothers part and Jacob settles near Shekhem in the center
of the land. Now the text tells us one of the most unlikely stories
concerning the relations between Jacob's camp and the people of the
town. Dinah, Jacob's daughter, was accosted by the son of the king.
He caused her grief and did not wish to release her. His father came
to Jacob asking to have the daughter to be wed with his son. The sons
of Jacob, particularly Simeon and Levi, her maternal kin, suggest
that if every make in the town will be circumcised, there could be
an accommodation. "Then will we give our daughters to you, and
we will take your daughters for us, and we will live with you, and
we will become one people." [Gen. 34:16]
The men of the city accept the offer, and perform the medical procedure.
Simeon and Levi do not keep their word, though. Instead they attack
the men while they are weak and in pain, killing all the men, looting
the city and taking the women and children for themselves. Jacob is
scandalized, reproaching his sons, "You have brought trouble
on me to make me odious among the inhabitants of the land, among the
Canaanites and the Perizzites; and I being few in number, they shall
gather together against me, and slay me; and I shall be destroyed,
I and my house." [ibid. 34:30] The opposite actually happens
the "fear of God" falls upon the people of the land,
and no one attacks Jacob or any of his camp.
Jacob was never quite reconciled to what Simeon and Levi did, and
he brought the matter up and cursed them in his parting
words to his children. "Simeon and Levi are brothers; instruments
of cruelty are their swords. O my soul, do not come into their council;
to their assembly, let my honor not be united; for in their anger
they slew a man, and in their wanton will they lamed an ox. Cursed
be their anger, for it was fierce; and their wrath, for it was cruel;
I will divide them in Jacob, and scatter them in Israel." [ibid.
49:5-7] Our sages also found it hard to explain or find the rational
for this massive act of violence.
Two years ago, speaking on Shabbat Vayishlakh, shortly after the lynching
of two young Israeli men, I said the following words:
In Israel the situation is quite different.
There we see how precarious life can be when Esau holds sway. The
government of Israel is at an impasse. There is an insistence on carrying
on the negotiations (which are called "peace" though events
contradict the term), even while admitting that
they do not have a mandate to rule, as evident from the resignation
of the prime minister. Still, the
emissaries of our leader do not follow the example of father Jacob.
There is no humility, and there is no attempt at making peace within
the camp. The nation of Israel is torn asunder by the smashed
dream of peace with our neighbors, a dream devastated by the events
of the past two months. How
can one believe in the sincerity of adversary in his claim to want
peace when one sees the blood thirsty multitude in the lynch mob in
Ramallah? How can one accept the peaceful intention of a leader who
praises the killers and the murderers and the children who are used
as shields and cannon fodder in a callous maneuver to dislodge us
from our hard fought and hard labored land which we have turned from
desert to blooming garden.
Let us send emissaries far and wide, like father Jacob, like all decent
and God loving people do. Let the emissaries speak of peace
peace with honor, peace with honesty, peace between equals. Let us
speak peace in the marketplace, not behind closed doors. Let peace
flow from street to avenue to city square. Let none threaten it or
try to put it down. Let none speak of revenge or redress or reported
wrongs of yesteryear. Let us take the time to heal and hallow life
above pride and prejudice. Let the messengers return, as the dove
did to Noah's ark, carrying the olive branch that symbolizes the end
of evil and of strife. Let there be true and complete peace. In America,
in Israel, and throughout God's great creation.
Studying for this week's presentation, I came upon an interpretation
of the events at Shekhem that gave me a new perspective on the Torah
story - and the present conflict.
One sage says, "Then will we give our daughters to you, and we
will take your daughters for us, and we will live with you, and we
will become one people." [Gen. 34:16] For a father to avenge
the honor of his daughter by killing all the men in the city is an
unpardonable act of violence. However, the verse speaks not of a family
but of a nation - "and we will become one people." A nation
is defined by its leaders (which may or may not be good news to ponder
in our day and age...) and Shekhem and Khamor are the leaders
of their town. For men such as these, who kidnap and rape a young
girl and then wish to condemn her to continued rape and humiliation
under the pretext of marriage' is completely unthinkable. It
is precisely the danger of becoming such a nation that drove Simeon
and Levi to attack and destroy the "source" of the evil
- the men of the city. The women and children of the city, many of
whom were undoubtedly also forced into their relation with the men,
were liberated from the evil influence that had darkened their days.
This lesson is carried on to our times and the conflict in Israel
and the war our nation is involved in. We do not hate a nation of
Palestinians, Arabs, or Moslems. We have no quarrel with families
or individuals. We have a war to the bitter end against a philosophy
that trains people to kill and maim and devastate as a means to achieve
the goal of removing our society - from a land, any land, and in the
end from the land of the living. It is leaders who hold such
beliefs and train their citizens to act upon them, who cause the grief
of both the victims and the perpetrators. Call his Bin Laden, Saadam
Hussien, Yassir Arafat or sheikh Yassin like Pharaoh, Haman,
Torquemada or Hitler before them, they are evil doers who despoil
their followers. Neither Israel not the United States can be faulted
for fighting against them and what they stand for. May they be defeated
soon, and may the world learn the lesson of their demise.
Amen
Vayishlakh 5764
This week we read in the Torah the portion
is Va'yishlakh -- which means and he sent,' and is found in
Genesis, from 32:4 to 36:43. The portion begins with our father Jacob
returning to the Promised Land and the dramatic and fateful reunion
of the two brothers, Jacob and Esau.
The portion opens with verses that read, "Jacob sent messengers
before him to his brother Esau in the land of Seir, the country of
Edom, instructing them, "Thus you shall say to my lord Esau:
Thus says your servant Jacob, I have lived with Laban as an
alien, and stayed until now; and I have oxen, donkeys, flocks, male
and female slaves; and I have sent to tell my lord, in order that
I may find favor in your sight.'" [Gen 32:4-6] Our father Jacob
addresses his brother as "my lord," and speaks of himself
as "your servant." You would almost think that Yitzkhak
had actually blessed Esau with the blessing he spoke over Ya'akov
by trickery... Remember? "Let people serve you, and nations bow
down to you; be lord over your brothers, and let your mother's sons
bow down to you; cursed be every one who curses you, and blessed be
he who blesses you." [Ibid 27:29]
Next week we shall celebrate the first night of the Festival of Lights,
Khanukkah. We shall kindle the first light and sing "Al Hanisim"
thanking got for all the miracles that he wrought for our fathers
in days long gone (but not forgotten) and this time of the year...
Today, in a sober and somber mood, let us recall humbly what happened
before God worked His miracles. I applaud the historical editor that
chose to "close" our Tanakh, our "holy Scriptures,"
before the time of the Maccabees. This way we do not have to read
in our holy books of the horrible treason of some of our brothers
against the main body of the Jewish People.
Let us look briefly at the historical facts leading to Khanukkah:
the Jewish people came under the control of Greece in Alexander the
Great's conquest of the Middle East. They were treated most kindly
and fairly by Alexander and his administration and were thereby
seduced to the Greek culture and life-style. Back in those days, "it's
Greek to me" did not mean what it does today. Back then it was
"the IN thing to do," "Greek is slick," and philosophy
was much more exciting than theology. So Jews were assimilating, Hellenizing,
as it was called, and they looked with displeasure and contempt at
their brethren who refused to follow their lead.
Admiring Greek culture, they bought into the Greek language, and despised
the tongue of their fathers. Hebrew became foreign to them, and they
wished to remove its use from the land. Maybe with the spread of the
language of Hellenism, its ways would become more palatable to the
People of the book, which they now called "Biblos"
Bible.
Let us remember the folly of the age: on the one hand we had the Hellenists,
on the other hand the zealots - Khassidim. It was our brothers, the
assimilationists, who went to the king, Antiochus, and asked him to
issue the infamous edict forbidding the study of Torah and the celebration
of Shabbat! It was they who suggested turning the Temple in Jerusalem
to a place of "new and modern worship" of the Gods of the
Hour the parthenon of Greek idols. Deprived of their Temple,
they reasoned, their fellow-Jews will fall in line behind them.
Let us also recall our dear martyred brothers and sisters, children,
adults and elderly, who kept the faith and paid for it with their
lives. They refused apostasy, and they did not raise a hand to defend
themselves. They lived by their faith and they died for it.
Their faith and their way condemned them to extinction until the Hasmonean
priests, of the village of Modin, in Judea, raised the banner of revolt.
Matthaias Hasmonean slew the Hellenist Jew who was willing to make
a sacrifice to Zeus in the village square, calling out to the villagers,
"Mi Ladona'y Ela'y who so ever is for God, let him follow
me!" His brave sons killed the Greek soldiers, and they all took
off for the hills, setting the pattern for countless freedom fighters
who would follow their example.
The Maccabees were the first anti-heroes. They hated war, and only
engaged in it as a last resort, realizing that the death of the faithful
is not martyrdom if none will be left alive to affirm the sacrifice
and continue the ways for which life was given who generously. In
the final analysis, it was the Hasmoneans who were first to realize
that there is a "threefold cord [that] is not quickly broken"
[Ecclesiastes 4:12] and it is the land, the language and the
people. If the people would be gone, the language will disappear and
the land will become desolate. Thus, the Maccabees called for self-defence.
If the language is lost, the people will lose their identity
and so the connection of the Hebrew people to the tongue of the prophets
throughout the ages has been a great and heroic achievement of Jewish
survival. As for the land the Maccabees fought for it and won
their war; the zealots in the revolt against Rome fought a valiant
battle and lost; two thousand years of exiled Jews kept faith with
it in their heart and in their lives everywhere in the world where
fate took them and in the last century the Zionists and pioneers
went back to reclaim it and reestablish our claim to the land.
It was the split among our people that caused the Hellenistic attack
upon our people, their land and their heritage. Brotherly strife caused
the destruction of Jerusalem and the exile of our people in antiquity.
Our common bonds have sustained Judaism through the millennia of the
exile and the battle to reestablish our sovereign land of Israel.
Today we are once again being attacked and assailed by foes who would
like to deprive us of our sovereignty and our legitimacy. As long
as we are united - they will fail. Let us keep our faith, let us keep
faith with our brethren, and let us persevere for the sake of future
generation, in honor of those who gave their all in days of old, at
this time of the year.
Amen
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